change ..

do you ever feel lost?
do you ever feel disoriented?
do you ever feel that you've dropped your purpose and lost your aspirations?
congratulations  you're just in the good direction! it's this terrible appalling feeling that makes you  grow ....makes you want to choose a different destiny and a different direction ,  it's in that exact same moment when you feel like changing ...
but here is the problem, i deeply believe that people do not change , at least not in the common sense ... no one can wish for blue eyes ,and cross his fingers that by the end of the week he'll have the blue eyes he dreamed of , it's just that simple. you can't wake up to be a different person , you can't abolish your whole being , can't abrogate the little details that makes you unique even if you pretended to , and even if you do just in time things will fall apart and you'll be really lost that you won't be able to find your path again..
therefore  i have a very different unique vision of changing ...
it starts with that one special morning , where you read a quote , a book , a verse ... where you watch a story of a different kind or you just simply observe good enough to  notice that little corner in your soul you don't really like ...  to recognize that the other lazy side of you is letting your life passing by .. to acknowledge all the love you're wasting on the wrong person ... to admire yourself and really look at the beautiful parts of you ,you didn't even appreciate ... and that's where change began in that instant you decide that you can be a better person , that you can do better , that you can dream bigger and achieve higher ... that moment when you realize that you're in the wrong place so you decide to take control of you life! this is what i love to call change ! ohh noo not yet! change needs persistence ...  you don't just decide , you need to have a plan... a clear vision of where you'd love to go... an exceptional path you see yourself loving it, and this is when magic starts to happens ...you'll change BUT you'll always be yourself just a little better...
however not everyone is capable of this, to change you need to be confident enough to let go of all that's keeping you away from where you'd like to go... you need to have that kind of awareness to dedicate all your energy in one direction without doubting whether you're right...  you need to be willing to take risk ...  to fail.. again and again until you get it right.. you need to have that deep strong belief in yourself to believe that you're able to do what ever you decide.. and of course you need to be willing to walk in whatever direction your soul decides..
and if you do so , i assure you , you'll be just in the right place
and remember this:
“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.”― Albert Einstein
choose your way..